It looks something like 'Dear Abby' one minute you get engaged will be the envy of all kinds of problems with your sister. Since jealousy talking behind your back like trying to upstage your wedding it all boils down to one thing siblings rivalry. Here are some tips for getting the relationship with the brother or sister sibling rivalry back on track before the permanent derail your wedding plans. Sibling rivalry is back in all sorts of ways, but there are really only a few main reasons. The biggest problem is usually jealousy. Perhaps the younger sister was involved while the former is always looking for Right. Maybe your brother is tired of all the money your parents spend on your wedding and feel jealous. Or maybe a brother or sister cannot stand not being the center of attention in the family. Although the causes of marriage linked to sibling rivalry rather limited it can manifest itself in ugly ways.
The sister who expresses her jealousy by criticizing your wedding plans. This is the sister who seems to find fault with everything from the wedding dress and bridal jewelry magazines you like for websites and decorations you are considering. You hear a lot of this Well I guess if you like it, said with a nose in the air. Sometimes jealousy can be spread by expressing an interest in the opinion of your brother about your siblings rivalry especially if the two of you had been close. It may be that his negative attitude is based on his fear of getting lost in your new husband. If you feel that this is the case make him feel as involved as possible in order to allay his fears. Take her shopping for flowers jewelry and wedding decorations. Ask her if she likes roses or peonies better. You may just find that when she sees your sister still has a place in your life his behavior will improve.
Your brother has begun to comment on your choice of bridesmaids sarcastic and even her husband. All comments are subject to the weight of his assistants to the career of her future husband. This cannot be tolerated. Politely, but clearly inform the brother or sister to make comments when they insult the people you love enough to have your wedding or marriage they insult you and hurt your feelings. If the problem persists please feel free to still totally cut off or derogatory remarks and let the wicked brothers and sisters in the middle of a sentence.
